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In 2004, Tom’s sister compiled a scrapbook collage of her memories and thoughts about her baby brother, “Tommy Lee” including photos and press clippings. We will post as much of it as possible here – beginning with her words.
SPECIAL THANK YOU! A SPECIAL THANKS GOES TO MARK DE-JONG THAT OWNS MARKS DIESEL. HE HAS MANY PAINTINGS OF TOM’S IN THE ATTIC AT HIS SHOP. WHEN TOM NEEDED MONEY, MARK WAS ALWAYS THERE TO BUY A PAINTING. ALSO BECAUE OF MARK WE WERE ALWAYS ABLE TO WRITE TO TOM. WE WOULD LIKE TO THANK ZEL BANDIER-DAWSON, ALSO AN ARTIST WHO BE-FRIENDED TOM AND ARRANGED FOR HIM TO HAVE A SHOWING OF HIS ART AT FLORIDA KEYS COMMUNITY COLLEGE. AND TO DEBORAH JALBERT WHO KEPT ME INFORMED ABOUT TOM BY E-MAIL. SHE ALSO SENT ME A LOT OF PICTURES OF TOM WHICH I HAVE IN THE BOOK. DEBORAH, I DON’T KNOW WHAT I WOULD HAVE DONE WITHOUT YOU. GOD BLESS YOU ALL! MARY ALICE After Tom left Hoopeston, Illinois, we all kind of lost track of him. All we ever heard of him was when we were sent newspaper clippings or occasional letters which were few and far between. I did however receive a large newspaper article about him. On October 1, 1992, Solares Hill newspaper had a three-page article about him. I will include the pictures on separate pages. The article was written by Robin Shanley. I don’t know if Robin was a man or a lady. Robin interviewed Tom and I can verify almost everything as told to me. Since Solares Hill paper was newspaper size I’ll type the article here. Here, Mary Alice re-typed the article already posted on this website in the “About Tom” page by Robin Shanley. – It’s the second article there beginning about halfway down the page. – She interjected one comment into the story about painting the snake to look like its poisonous cousin. “This was Tom, he had a really good sense of humor” She continues after the article: (This is your sister now)……. Tom I am reading this article and crying. Honey this is the life you chose. Do you know after I read the article that was written in Solares Hill paper some things just did not sit with me. I did not like the way you told the story about OUR Mother. In fact I sat down and wrote to the paper expressing my feelings. Your Mother loved you dearly. She was not trying to send you to the nuthouse. She only wanted to get help for your drinking. You know yourself Bill Ryan the bondsman called Mom whenever you needed help, and your Mom was there for you. Honey, I am not scolding you. I love you and so do all our other family members. Our Mom was a wonderful Mother to all of us. Remember the poem she wrote about you? My Youngest Son Almost an angel, my youngest son, Mary Alice (Forshier) Orazen continues: Dear Tommy, It was quite a surprise to all of us when Mom announced that she was pregnant. Being forty two, who would have guessed it? Now our family of six would in due time become seven. Brother Jim the oldest was either married or getting married. Our sister Jean was in Kankakee, Illinois attending Gallagher School of Business. I was a senior in John Greer High School, and Dick was thirteen or fourteen, not really sure. No! It wasn’t an embarrassment to us, we were all quite thrilled. I remember as if it were yesterday the day you were born. You were born in the winter time, and Illinois is very cold in December. Before Mom went to the hospital to deliver, we had a big fight. All the girls at JGHS were wearing those big fluffy knit sweaters. OH, I wanted one soooo bad… Mom said, “Sorry! We just can’t afford it.” But after Mom went to the hospital, I talked Dad into the money to buy one. I loved our dad. He was a soft touch when his kids asked for something. December 4th, 1941 - sixty-four years ago, you were born. – We all went to Danville, Illinois which was only 26 miles away, but then it seemed like a long journey. I will never forget Mom and our first glimpse of you. I am sure the delivery for Mom was not easy, but she was sitting up in bed smiling, looking happy and excited. She said, “Don’t tell me I can’t produce.” Then looking at me she said, “Well I see you got it.” Yes, I was wearing a bran new white bulky knit sweater that Dad had given me the money to buy. Tom, you were the ugliest baby in the nursery. May have been because you were so new, but you were bright red, and squalling at the top of your lungs. You weighed ten and a half pounds. The biggest reddest noisiest baby in the nursery, BUT we all loved you from the very start. I was sixteen when you were born, and a senior in high school. I used to come home from a date and pick you up out of you crib and sing to you. I would dance around the room getting you all riled up. Then Mom would have to put you back to sleep. You were a darling baby, and so intelligent. Your brother Dick and I both used to fight over you - each of us wanting to take you with us. Then Dick and I would lay on the bed with you and tickle you and play with you. I loved to dance and I would pick you up and dance around the room with you. As you got older and were talking, we all told you stories and taught you cute little sayings. Do you remember this poem we taught you? Little birdie in the sky. We would get you to recite it for company. Everyone thought you were great. Your Dad used to sit by the hour telling you stories. Stories he made up about the old west, horses and all kinds of animals – lions, tigers, monkeys etc. Tom, maybe that is why you love animals so much. He knew he was dying, so he told you “Tom, this will be the story that never ends.” And so it was true. The story never ended. Your dad smoked a lot (a very lot). I think he had emphysema, but in those days, I think they called it silicosis, (not sure of the spelling). He used to sit up at night on the side of the bed and eat apples to keep him from coughing. You were so loved….. Dad died when you were about four or five years old, since I will soon be 83, my mind is not as sharp as it once was. Anyway, I remember you saying, “My dad told me a story that never ended.” Another incident, when you were little, Mom used to tell was about Christmas. Our Dad told you another story. It was around Christmas and he told about the little boy who wanted a pony. Christmas morning he awoke to find (not switches, as the real story goes) but horse turds…Seeing the (horse turds) he said, “oh boy! I got a pony, but he got away! Our Mom took you to the barber and while there just like a kid you were squirming and wiggling. The barber said, “Tommy, if you don’t sit still, Santa will bring you switches in your stocking.” Tommy said “No! Horse Turds!” Mom was embarrassed. Living in the small town of Hooperston, Illinois, it was a custom to drive our car uptown on Saturday (early because we wanted to get a good parking place). Then we walked home leaving the car there. Saturday night in Hooperston was exciting. All the farmers came to town to buy their groceries for the week and to take care of any business that they could only do in town. The Forshier kids would get out and walk the street. Yes, we walked up and down Main Street and went into the Five and Dime Store…We also had Murphy’s Dime Store. I was interested in boys at that time, and I met a cute little farm boy named Bill Dennis. He even walked home with me to see the new puppy our dog Whoopee just had. Do you remember Whoopee? I think she was a pit bull. You and Mom and Dad would just sit in the car and watch the people go by. I can’t remember the fellow’s name, but it seems to me his name was Floyd Sargent. (I presume he has passed away now.) Anyway, Floyd went by, and he worked with my dad at FMC (Food Machinery Corporation). Dad spoke to him and silently to Mom and said, “Shit Ass.” As I said, our Dad was a corker…He generally said what he thought and had a great sense of humor. He probably didn’t mean it, but nevertheless, he said it. Of course, little pitchers have big ears, Tommy heard this. The next time they saw Floyd Sargent, Tommy said “Hello Shit Ass!” Tom, in your book, I have included the only pictures I had left in my possession. See how cute you were! Our Dad seemed to get worse and worse. By then I was married and living in Chicago. I worked in a Defense Plant. That was during WWII. You were still a baby at that time, but when I would come home to Hooperston for the weekends (Hooperston was 85 miles south of Chicago) – I would bring home all kinds of cute outfits for you. I bought the cutest coat and hat (matching tweed set and very expensive, but you were worth it. The first thing you did was throw the hat out the window and lost it. Oh well! These are just memories I have of you. While I was in Chicago, I took advantage of things that Hooperston would never have offered. I took flying lessons at the old Washington Airport in Harvey, Illinois. Incidentally, it is no longer there. (the airport I mean). It either burned down or was torn down to make room for progress. As I said before our Dad was sent to Mayo Brothers Hospital in Minnesota. Mom said he used to hear the planes overhead and say, “I wonder if that was Mary Alice.” I went to the hospital to visit our Dad. You know Tom, I am such a sentimentalist, I walked into the room and saw all the tubes from every orifice (oxygen in his nose, foley in his penis, Oxymaster on his finger) and I had to leave the room and cry. To get back to my story, Dad did come back from Mayo Brothers to Hooperston. He still required oxygen, but he was not getting any better or any stronger. Mom was at her wits end. It was just her and Tommy and Dick, in the old Forshier house on 214 West Elm. Jim and Tiny were still in Hooperston. Our sister Jean was married to Art Hayden and lived in California and Dick was just home from the Navy. Mom had been corresponding with a cousin in Colorado. She was really a cousin, but we called her Aunt Ferryl Rutan. Aunt Ferryl suggested that Mom bring Dad to Colorado. Colorado was supposed to be so healthy whereas Illinois was always humid and hot in the summer or cold and snowy in the winter. So starts a new chapter. Mom and Dick, Dad and Tommy sold our old house on 214 West Elm and moved to Colorado. Mom bought a house in Cripple Creek Colorado. It was on Spicer Street. Dick went to work at Trade and Transfer (a company that hauled mill tailings, coal etc.) Being an ex-nurse, I should have realized this really was a poor move. Cripple Creek was very high in altitude. Since breathing depends a lot on the circulatory system as well as the heart and other vital organs, it was not really a wise choice. The air was thin in Cripple Creek and breathing was more difficult. Dad was in the Cripple Creek Hospital when he died. You were only about 4 or 5 – maybe a little older, but I do remember being told that after Dad died you had to be put in the hospital for something and you started screaming when they put you in a bed. They said you screamed, “Get me out of here, this is where my dad died.” Sure enough, it was the room Dad died in, and though you were little, you remembered. I quit my job in Chicago and came home for the funeral. With Dad gone I figured Mom could use my help. By then I was divorced and 20 years old. I went to work at the telephone company. This is supposed to be your story Sweetie, so I won’t elaborate what happened to me but me and brother Dick and you were the best of friends. We really loved our baby brother. You were cute (as a bug’s ear!) BUT, you little devil almost made me lose my chance of marrying the man I really loved….. I was going with Frank Orazen then. We had only been going together for a month when Frank asked me to marry him. Brother Dick was going with Elsie Daniels then. Frank, for some reason, told me he would get me an engagement ring but we would keep it a secret for awhile. Maybe he was afraid of what his folks would say. I agreed that it would be a secret for a while. Of course you know your sister….. What Mary Alice knows, everyone knows….Not really! I was in seventh heaven. After my divorce I vowed never to fall in love again…..Hey! There was no way that I could keep it from Mom. She was my confidant… On the QT I told Mom all about Frank and I and that he was buying me a ring…Little pitchers have big ears and my nosey little brother (Tommy) heard every word. When Frank called me that evening Tommy answered the phone. Tommy said, “Did you get the ring?” Frank told me later that he almost backed out because of that. No, I told Frank that there was no way I could have kept my happiness from showing and that I had to tell my Mother. Frank and I were married and you and Mom lived above the Drug Store in Victor County. Remember? Then Mom got an offer to work at a Guest Ranch in Woodland Park. So Frank and I kept you with us. Pretty soon, you would be going back to school and since you knew all the kids in Victor, it would be easier on you if we kept you, rather than going with Mom. By then we had one child, Cindy. I told Mom it wouldn’t be any harder to take care of two kids, as it would only add one. So you started living with us. Frank had wanted a boy when Cindy was born. He loved his little girl but she was too little to go fishing with him. On Frank’s days off he would take you fishing with him. I remember Frank telling me what a little trooper you were. One time, he said you both walked up Pikes Peak (the back way) to a fishing hole there. It was a long long trek up the mountain, but Frank said you never complained and tried to keep up with your little short legs. Frank ran the Bowling Alley in Victor and every evening he would bring the money home in a black drawstring bag. It wasn’t a great amount but a lot of bills and change. A friend told Frank that Tommy was taking about every kid in town into Harshburgers (the town drug store) and treating them to ice cream and candy. It seemed all that money in the black bag looked good to Tommy and he knew what money could buy. That was your first spanking we had to give you and I believe it was the last. Frank set you down and first gave you a good talking to. He told you about stealing and how you can go to prison and how prisoners were treated and how a person should always be honest and trustworthy. Then, he turned you across his knee and paddled you. I think you thought he used his hand, but he really used his knife scabbard – I guess that’s what you call it. It was a leather holder that he kept his fishing knife in. You cried and later you told me, “I am never going to steal again. I don’t ever want to have to go to jail.” Really Tom, you were not a bad little kid. You really loved little Cindy and lots of times I trusted you to take care of here while I ran to the store for a minute. One time I had to run to the store and it took longer than I expected. When I came home everything seemed all right. You said, “I changed Cindy’s clothes and gave her a bath because she spilled chocolate milk all over her. Cindy looked nice and clean in her fresh clothes, BUT, on closer inspection I noticed that she had red spots all over her. I could not figure out what was wrong until Tom said he had given her a bath in Oxydol…Oh well honey, you tried. All of these are good memories I have of you when you lived with us. Like I said, everyone in the Forshier family loves you. You lived with me first, and then Mom went to California to live with your sister, Jean Hayden and Art. They have two boys, Jim and Jacks. I guess you three boys got along ok, but got into several incidents of trouble too. I can’t remember whether you went back to Hoopeston next or not, but I think you did. Then Jim and Tiny were your bosses. Jim and Tiny had Terry, Mary Ann and Susie at that time. They were awful good to you Tom. All the kids in that family had the very best. You had golf clubs and Flame … Flame was your horse and boy how you could ride. In fact, you always were a dare devil. There was nothing much you didn’t try. I am doing all this from memory, Tom, and I may not be telling this right as to the times you were with every one of your brothers and sisters. You were with Dick and Elsie a lot of the time and when they moved to Kansas, you went with them. In fact, you graduated from high school in Hoxie, Kansas. My memory of that is quite clear. I was living in Colorado then. I wanted to see my baby brother graduate. So, I drove all by myself from Colorado to Hoxie. I was still young then and you by that time were a young good looking guy. You took me several places in town with your arm around me and told everyone I was your new girlfriend. From there, Tom, I think you came back to Hoopeston. You always were quite a good artist. At least the family thought so. We sent you to college, but it did not last long and soon you came back. You just were not interested. It was then, I think, that you went into the Navy. I tried to tell as much as I know about your growing up. The rest of the story about going to Florida was told so well by Robin Shanley. I do, however, remember the Forshier family was going to have a big family gathering and you said…. “No Thanks! Too many bosses.” Yes! Tom, you dance to a different Drummer, but that doesn’t mean that we all don’t love you. You are, and always will be our BABY BROTHER TOMMY LEE FORSHIER. Tommy LeeThe clouds drift by, Was life’s road rocky, You wished me well, And as I watch
Forshier Orazen
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